How to Scientifically Trigger His Emotional Desire For You Using THIS Technique | Adam LoDolce

Watch more videos like this: />Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: /> ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: />INSTAGRAM: />TWITTER: /> Your worst enemy when it comes to creating white hot attraction with a man might be gut level impulse. If you routinely trust your first "feeling" when you start dating a new guy… you could be making a critical mistake. Here's a simple technique you should be doing instead. Don't get me wrong. Trusting your gut definitely has its place in a new relationship. BUT… When it comes to creating attraction, your gut will usually betray you faster than a final four alliance on an episode of Big Brother. Check out the video now, and let me know what you think in the comments. Your Coach, Adam P.S. If you'd like to get your hands on a proven blueprint for creating blistering hot attraction with any man, follow this link to my most popular program: /> Summary – What I'm about to share with you is so counterintuitive, yet powerful, that it will forever change how it is that you interact with men. You may already do this naturally, or it may be one of the most challenging shifts you'll ever make in your dating life. But I'll tell you this… Make this shift, and men will start emotionally bonding with you in ways you've never known possible before. Here's the thing: When a woman begins to get emotionally involved in a man, her first instinct is to give, give, give whatever it is that she can to the man. This is because women are innately very compassionate, caring, and giving. If you find that you fall into this trap, you probably notice that many times the more you give, especially early on and especially before a relationship even begins, the less that he responds. You might bake him cookies or buy him a t-shirt that you saw that made you think of him. Although these things are really nice to do, they aren't making him bond with you any further. Here's the simple shift to help you emotionally bond with a man. The best way to bond with someone is not by doing them a favor, but instead by asking them for a favor. Maybe you need some advice on how to deal with something at work. Maybe you just need some help fixing your washing machine that just broke at your home. Maybe you need him to pick you up after work because your car is in the shop. Making him invest his time, energy, and resources into you first, by asking for some type of favor is an incredibly potent way to emotionally bond with you. Why? Because it's part of human nature. Science supports this. In fact, in a research study where participants could either receive a lump sum of money or donate the money to a charity, they discovered surprising differences in neural activity for decisions that involve receiving money or donating money. While receiving money, activated the rewards system in our brain as would be accepted for something that gives us a positive reward. On the other hand, when people donated to charity, the same network showed even greater activity and the activity actually spread to the subgenual area, which is implicated in a social attachment. This suggests that our brains actually enjoy being a gift giver over being a recipient. By making him help you in some way, he's going to start emotionally bonding with you even further. Now, like I said, you can't force him to give you a gift, but you can definitely ask him for small favors. The easiest way to do this is by simply asking for some advice on something. Get him to invest his time and energy into you first, and watch as he continues to fall deeper for you. Have you ever tried doing this with a guy that you're dating, without even thinking about it? If so, comment below. I'd love to know how it went. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: 

Sarah Irick
Maybe on my first date I'll ask him to pay my rent. Lol!
Tassoula Blake-Cameron
In the past i usually act like the "nice girl" doing everything for a men thinking he would "fall in love" with me. Such action did not get me the results i wanted. Since last year i started to watch your videos and i have change my actions. I ask for favors, i don't open up myself to any men unless i am in a committed relationship, i up grade my standards etc. And now i am getting results, i have high value men falling for me, men who own there own business, handsome, stable etc. I have become a mystery to men because these men have women running behind them, begging to be with them and willing to do any and everything they want. While i am like yeah i like you, and i would like to be with you however, i am not going to lower my standards. I have taken total control of my love life. Thank you, for your help.
Miranda Baxter
Too much work for me..i'll just take care of me. I wanna emotionally bond with myself.
Reland McClure
So we should initiate his hero instincts.......hmmmm....interesting !
Alessandra Alvirde
OMG this is Sooooooo hard for me. I literally can’t ask anyone for anything 😂 I think I’m asking for too much, or if someone is trying to “reward” me for something I say no. Pfffff. I just like to be the giver 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ H E L P
Jo Desouza
Wow wow wow. It really does work. I done this subconsciously. I was getting to know a guy and one day while he was on his way to mine I messaged him to get me grapes when he arrived he brought me black,red and green grapes because he didn’t know which one I liked. Drinks and chocolate. I was genuinely shocked as I hate asking guys for anything as I thought coming across independent is the best way to get a man to desire you. But there’s power in receiving !
I asked the guy I ve been on couple of dates with to help me carry a heavy work counter from the car to the house. He offered to come straight after work ! More dates followed :)
Raquel Li
Psychology proves a man or whoever does favors for you feels more of a connection.
Yes because men like to feel needed.
Southern Sweet Tee
Wow! This is so crazy. I literally make it my business to not ask people for anything. This is going to be hard, but I'm going to try it out on someone.
Women have to keep in mind that it's not just the favor you ask him it's how you ask him. Make him feel important that you asked him instead of asking anyone else (man) that could this favor for you. If you want his advice, let him know he is smart, you trust him and his advice he gives you. Need a favor that involves physical labor such as carrying a piece of furniture make it known to him first that you had gone to him first because there's no other man that has the strength he does to so such favor. Also, asking for a favor and returning a favor such as asking him to fix something at your house and in return you would be happy to fix him a dinner. Let compromise be appreciated by what he is/has done for you. Rememner, don't make the appreciative compromise because the "favor" will be done but rather make it about "who" did the favor.
Virginia Petak
It hard find a good guy. I have big heart to give. If he out there i will wait for him. Love him. All my. Heart
Carol Loraine
I've found the more distant I am the better at least in the beginning. When I care less, they care more.
This is so true hahah! I am aloof and mysterious most of the time, and the guys line up. My problem is turning the "aloofness" off and showing that I can actually care and open up.
Carol Loraine
I have found men to be like little boys who get bored easily and they move on to the next thing that appears to be shinier. ...and to the next..yada yada. It's in their DNA.
Completely agree. I've always done this and told my girls to be this way too. Men love to help!
Autumn Rayne
Seriously hard to find a good man
Arohi Singh
So True Adam...I have been constantly asking him for his views or suggestions on my personal issues...and sometimes really personal issues and he has always shown great interest...And our life is going so well... Perfect Couple 😍
This actually worked on a narcissist I recently dated. It took him a while to get there, but when I started asking for things for myself instead of catering to him he actually became more invested. Of course, when I pulled back if he didn't follow through it gave him the motivation to put himself out there for me.
Danielle 1974
So so true. I was dating a man that I was doing all kinds of things for. I really liked him. He never invested. Another man who was giving me advice and even monetary favors was always interested.
Kacie Reed
hes gotten upset with me baecause i never ask him for help or when he offers i turn it down....mainly cuz i dont want him to feel used
Lacey Ziegler
When I first met my fiancé we both connected quickly, both instant attraction. A month after we met and starting dating, I asked for his help, its a difficult thing for me to ask for help financially but I did. I was interested in renting a house which he viewed with me (he had his own house) but I didn't have enough for a deposit. 1,700 that's not small, but I called him and began to explain " This isn't easy for me but I trust you and I feel safe asking you this" he gave me a check for the deposit, later he explained how much it meant to him that I asked him that and how it made him feel that I trusted him and felt comfortable asking him that and he knew it wasn't easy but it made him feel needed, also asking his opinion on the house and if he thought it was a smart move or not. After I turned in my deposit and move in date approached. He quickly asked me to move in with him instead. I asked him because I trust him, and feel safe. He knew I'm very independent and self reliant due to my ex husband so for me to ask him was a big deal it took a lot and that's one of many things that have created the love, trust and bond between us. Its basic human desire to feel needed, to feel important specially by the ones you love.
Maya Gamal
I actually did this trick and I worked amazing .. he was happy and proud and everything went better
B Chuck
So I have been following you for years and am happy to report that I am recently married. I am the typical independent woman but I followed your advice and started LETTING HIM do small favors for me that HE wanted to do. Each time I thanked him he had this sheepish dumb look in his face in satisfaction. Needless to say it led to date after date after date because he saw that I wasn't a gold digger who wanted to take take take.... I was grateful and truly appreciated what he was giving to me. Anyways I've been sharing your links with all my friends because your advice helped me. Thanks so much!
Devine Asuquo
I am sorry to disagree, where I come from if you start asking a man/guy for a favour in the beginning they tag you Needy Desperate demanding and a control freak. Not asking them for a favour is what attracts them to you and at ease will offer to be of any help or assistance to you.
could anyone give any good examples of what kind of favors to ask of the guy??! haha
Tara Worden
I was dating a guy for a few weeks and felt him start to lose interest. Not to sound horrible but I thought since he's going to break things off I may as well ask him if he could help me move a couple of heavy tables before he does or else I'm going to have to hire someone. No idea that request would make his attraction go from a -20 to a 110+. I didn't even understand what i did that changed his entire behavior towards me at the time because it was such a simple and short conversation i could've had with anyone. We dated for a year after that.
Shelley Viohl
When I ask for a favor, I end up always having to pay for help. Nothing is given for free.
Morgan Stewart
Wow...I always ask the guy I like to watch my bags or help me carry things to my car or just things like that, and I never realized that it was strengthening and emotional connection!! I feel really close to him now but I just had no idea that doing this was even a contributing factor. Thanks Adam!
Donovan Thompson
This isn't really good advice.Women ask me for favors, but it always seems like that's all I'm good for. Every time I get a call from the woman I like, she needs this or that, not once did she call to just hang out or invite me to a get together. I just end up feeling like I'm being used. I felt like I was falling into the dependable 'nice guy' that's always there at her beckoned call. Ladies, don't just call them to do something for you; actually try to return the favor by doing something for them. I ended up telling her I'm busy after she asked me to cover her shift.
Domo Pix
I recently started dating someone and I've been asking him for favours and advice before we even started feeling anything for each other....I think it's due to that he likes me now
Ikia Mosley
The part when you mentioned " asking for a favor" totally nailed it! I swear my guy gets upset when I don't ask him for anything but only in an emergency😆 I love to be surprised sometimes but it better be good for the both of us🤔🤔😈😈💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂 That's a turn off for alot of damn girl why you begging
Kecia Scarbrough
That doesn't work.Guys around my age don't care about me.Asking for advice makes me feel stupid.They either say I don't know or they tune me out.
Maria Tomczak
Tell them or have this mindset: “Talk to the gum at the bottom of my shoe, because my hand & my booty are too good for you”
Dark Light Tarot
I never thought too much about it, but actually it does seem that when I ask for advice or need help with something - carrying something of whatever - a guy does start looking out for me, to see how he can help again. thanks for your videos, they're really informative.
Jane Brooks
I am very little, short and kinda weak and I would always ask my boyfriend to reach something for me or help me with my heavy bag or something like that and he would always laugh and smile at me and do it. I feel like it was making him realy happy.
Maria Vargas
My goodness! I couldn’t agree more in this video. My experience has been 💯 % true the more I gave myself to him the more he disengaged. And before I knew our relationship ended leaving me broken , hurt with so much despair 😪
Carol Loraine
If a man wants to make it happen, he will make it happen and it doesn't matter what we do or say. This has been my experience.
Ger R
Good video but all the good guys are taken or the single ones have a long list of impossible criteria.
Leonora Dompor
My boyfriend told me love is not all sex.
Dianne McGee
Oh yes! It works girls.
Brunna Mclean
Ahhh!!! I had this years ago. Didn't realise What caused it but now I know! I had a guy that helped me loads (bit by bit for months) we got to know each other really well, laughed and joked... and he fell. HARD. Didn't work out, but he has never gotten over it. Wow.
Lovely Untamed Rituals
Omg this is such BS. If a guy truly likes you, trust me he will go after you. Plain and simple. No need for these little strategies.
Randi Pierce
Dig this tip - thanks! :)
Michelle Lowe
I just did this with a guy I am imterested in without even knowing the effect it would have on him. It makes sense now that he messages me a lot.
Jasmine K.
Really? Hmm.. interesting
sorita mangla
Dude you are really an expert in men
Becky Tull
I grew up with the women in my family beating independence into my brain haha! It’s very rare I need anyone to do a favor for me, I’m generally already doing it lol! What kinds of things can I ask for to help him feel more helpful to me?
Mystique Lou
Omg are there any chemicall experiments involved?
Hunter Collins
The other day, teaching summer school, I had armfuls of stuff to take to class & had to set some down to open the school door. And had to use my little tush to hold the door open (guys do tell me it's really cute). Bent in half I was trying to pick up my stuff when the best looking guy on the staff ran up and held the door open for me. I said, "You just made it so much easier for me. Thank you so much!" and flipped a smile and my ponytail over my shoulder. I got back the biggest megawatt smile. Even unasked, great guys like to help us out. Isn't that awesome?
Adria Dobson
Could you use this for a good guy friend you think likes you?
This is the best video ever it really good. unfortunately I done the opposite he wants to do favors for me but I refused what a stupid girl hahaha now i learned the listen.
Leonora Dompor
True love waits!
Charly Althouse
I think I’m not compassionate or giving. Im a little too independent.
Meggles Lynn
Done all of those. They all said no lol.
Aimee A
Prime opportunity! The man I like has offered to help me with my school assignment/anything I need help with school wise including my practicum and the assignment is an interview so I get to know him better and get to bond. Score!
A New Love Official
Being deeply in love to someone too early is a trap. I can relate to your video because I was once like this before though I regret giving him too much but in the end it gave me a lesson.
Sonal Raikwar
Absolutely.. Freakingly.. love... Adam You're Awesome.
Soma Jaiswal
dude i love you but i dont agree with this logic, guys are hopeless ,except you ;) ... they dont feel nothing ... esp german men . Can i request you to make a video on '' how to tame german men'' lol haha... trust me i find them emotionally so numb
I like how you ended the video. Keep doing your thing. Respect👊
Polar Bear
I feel you have to balance it. You dont want the guy to feel used either. Some guys want to give but need to see you're worth it.
Teriqua Jones
Men are complicated.
Psalms 91
Thank you so much. I am so much of a giver/pleaser that I got the worst end. Now that I know better, I will definitely be asking. I see why one of exes always talked about how all these women call him for advice but I knew that that was just an excuse for them to call. Besides he was actually telling me the same story but I was not buying it.
Leonora Dompor
The Virgin Mary is the most attractive
Little Wing
Mind blown. Love it!
No more Abuse
This was awesome thank you.
What about asking him to hold you because you need him...does that count?
Gods kid
Your vidoes are my evening routine lol. Even tho I don't like any man I am Learning alot 🙃
Christine Notermann
I appriciated the science aspect to this topic.
Great advice!
Spiritual Angel777
THANK YOU....Didn't Realize I Was Doing THIS...Thanks For Your Words Of Wisdom. Greatly Appreciated
Living abroad alone for years and working as a supervisor at work, I have made myself a problem-solver 🙄 I think I realised just now why I have never been able to maintain a relationship. 😌 Lots of guys pursued me but they usually pulled away after a few months of seeing each other 😌 Thanks Adam. I will try to ask for favour from today.
Sruthi Zenith
free ur mind from everything...and see what is God's plan for u..... Love is not a game to test or play..... it should be given without any expectations and fear......
Nada Luqman
I just love the advices you give, thank you for that. How about you give advices to guys? Make a separate channel or a series?
Sheena Dever
#askadam I've been single for over 10 years I need your help
Cathy Baldry
If only had found this video a few weeks ago
Sandhya S
Your are such a decent guy and you are awesome too!
Luciana Ardillita
I think this guy has triggeredmy desire for him 😅😘
I find that when a man likes you, he is willing to help you whenever he can (when he is not busy). I would thank and praise him in front of others to make him feel good and appreciated :D Sometimes if I see that he might need help, I would try to help him even if I am not strong haha
Melanie Aldershoff
Sexy confidence I want to date you
Rosanne Keizer
I don´t know if it works. I do this naturally.But I think the clue isn´t just asking for help. Relationships need some serious work, and helping another is natural in this process. I think it´s communication and having an eye of the patner his/her needs. Btw. my relationship is really strong and we know every deatil about one another. Where needed we help each other.But again we communicate with each other .
Carol Loraine
I'm a good person, however, I put my guard up and watch to see if they're worth my time.
Anna Simonsson
Victoria Bellanova
Thanks for the video. That makes a lot of sense!!
Selena Williams
Great advise! Thank you Adam...
Kaila Cook
Huh. I typically didn't ask my boyfriend for favors when we were going out, but I'd constantly ask my guy friends for help on things, only because I felt better about getting help from them. It's all making sense now..
I am definitely going to give it a try! IE, Hey, Adam! Would you please be so kind to do me a favor??? ... (and I really hope your answer) 😉
Tina Markey
I did this this I ask him for a favour to help me out. He got all flustered and turn me down got annoyed about that, that he was too busy? The washing up was more important?? WHY? 🤔 he Obviously he didn't want to be close to me!! Maybe Thats why now hes my ex!! 😃 it was happening too often. 🤔I get worn down, then I gave up asking. 😞
adrienne gellman
Death Fairy
I already did this and well before you guys told me but hey never hurts to say it again
where have you been , we missed you
Leonora Dompor
I am a beautiful holy virgin,loving the streetkids
The FashionJeneral
This is so true! I've been in a relationship with my boy for a year in a half & we just recently transitioned into a semi-long distance relationship because he had to move away from me. So recently most of our interactions with each other are via phone. I realized that I was more likely to get a longer conversation with him when I ask him to call or FaceTime me later when he can versus just trying to start a conversation with him through texting.
Rose Lyons
I have a need right now for my man but I don't know if he will do it for me or not Adam! But I will definitely give it a try!
Jian Hui He
What if he refuses to provide help as respond to my request? What can I get him help me willingly?
I have done this without realising. I was very ill and needed a lot of help...and he said helping me brought him closer to me and that he thinks he fell in love with me and wants to protect me.
Раиса Ершова
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Rain Andro
Yeah I ended up being the giver and feeling more in love and not reciprocated I guess
Leanne Edwards
What should I do if after 3 years he's starting to lose interest. How can I win back his respect
Yu Wei
I do that because i heard this advice on tv show "Mentalist"