How to Make a Man Deeply Desire You | Adam LoDolce

Blow past the 'friend zone' and get him to deeply desire you with these secret tools. Say goodbye to being looked over and hello to being sexy and desired. Watch more videos like this: />Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: /> ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: />INSTAGRAM: />TWITTER: /> Do you know the secret to making a man deeply desire you? Inside this short video I break down exactly how to avoid landing yourself in the dreaded 'friend zone.' I also reveal what you need to do in order to make him chase you like a cat chases a mouse. Check it out now and join the conversation in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam P.S. – Making a man desire you has A LOT to do with how you make him feel. And that's the entire focus of my Emotional Attraction Formula which you can grab right here. Summary – Sexual Tension This is a phenomenon that occurs when two people interact with one another and both feel sexual desire towards one another, but the consummation is postponed. Sexual tension is what keeps the possibility of a relationship alive. Think of sexual tension as a rope. You on one end and him on the other. Now, there are three scenarios. Situation #1: You Sleep With Him on a First Date If you jump the gun too soon, what happens? You wake up the next morning and you realize you don't even know the other person. The rope snaps. Sexual tension is gone… and it's over. Situation #2: You Have Zero Sexual Tension Imagine that the rope just sags and sags and sags. You get to know each other. You talk, talk, talk, then before you know you realize that you're just friends and then nothing's there at all. Sexual tension gone, now you're just friends. You could literally have everything in the world in common, but if there's no sexual tension there, then he's not going to desire you and chances are you're not going to desire him. You are just friends. Situation #3: You're Actually Getting to Know Each Other Slowly, But Surely The rope is tight… a little pull here… a little slack there… and then another little tug on the line… Boom goes the dynamite! Of course, we all want this third situation. The question is how do you do it? How do you keep sexual tension in a relationship before you have sex? For starters, allow for slow sexual progression. Without forward progression, he's going to give up. With too much forward progression, such as having sex on the first date, you're risking the fadeout. Be sensual without being too sexual. Maybe on the first date, you guys have a kiss. Maybe on the second date, it goes a little bit further. Maybe a third date, it goes even further. Progression is great, but you don't want to jump the gun too quickly. Forward progression, good. Jumping the gun, bad. Secondly, talk dirty but do it very subtly. Watch the video for some examples of what to do and what not to do. Bottom line: dirty talk allows him to use his imagination a little bit. If he's using his imagination, you're winning. Finally, make him miss you. If he's constantly drawing you back in, then you know what, you're building more tension in the relationship. If he's constantly pushing you back and pushing you away, then you are at risk of losing him. Make him wonder if he's going to have you and if he's wondering, then he's going to really desire you. Some women out there, I understand they want to wear their heart on their sleeve and just when they meet a guy that they really like. They want to just go for it, let them know everything and just dive right in. At the end of the day, it can really hurt you with your early on relationships because that's not how attraction works. Sexual tension really works when the guy is still wondering where it's going. When there's still a little bit of mystery in the relationship. If he's not really sure where it's going… …that's going to really push him forward to want to get to know you further and turn it into a relationship.

Video: "You sexy single lady" Me: "oh well" (flips hair)
never been friendzoned but always "friends-with-benefit'-zoned... I don't understand why. I am a normal,attractive woman, great job and life... but guys only want to hook up with me, although I don't dress sexy or look like I just want to hook up :/
Liza Wallace
Video starts at 2:30. You're welcome
Liza Wallace
When Adam said "Yes You, You Sexy Single Lady" I lost it 🙈🤣😂
T Elmo
you sure like dropping that rope thing on the floor lol
Sam Nolan
I agree with this. How can you be romantically involved with someone your not attracted too? Theirs gotta be some physical desire.
A True Love Official
"Be sensual without being too sexual." I love this statement as much as I love all these three tips. Thank you for this video.
andres urgelles
Am a man and ladies yall need to follow this man's advice .
Golden Prize
I kinda disagree. I did hook up with a guy on the first date and he literally kept chasing me... and wanting to date me and asking if i would consider him as a bf. So i agree but kinda disagree
KVL Angel
these guys want everything FAST...
Noemi Delgado
Can you rewind if you did the first and now stuck in the “mixed messages” friend zone?!
Jen & Dog Marty
The man is supposed to court you and impress you. let the man do the work and if he isn't into you then have him step aside so the real one can step in
My friend who had a history with friend zone me and try to make me his booty call. So I don't call or text him anymore and he leaves me alone :-) :-) win win next
I was too needy :( The guy fell head over heels for me and tried to impress me all the time. I wasn't interested at first, I friendzoned him. Then I started to fall for him and became needy. All of a sudden he doesn't want to date anymore saying he doesn't have feelings for me. And now I'm friendzoned and heartbroken.
Afomia Hailr
I haven't got friend zoned yet, but I have friend zoned many lol
Friend-zone: the only place I'm in 24/7 :(
Baijayanti Acharya
I started top on his list, but I've been in the friend zone for 1 yr, then I realized my mistakes, now I'm trying to pull him back with no connection.
Precious Cousins
Yes I have been friend zoned. We broke up, but I still love him. I had to let him go.
This video is funny and so clear about the 3 scenarios. I've dated guys in all 3 categories. C is ideal. Thank you Sexy Confidence
Solenne Nicli
Could you make a video with example of those subtle flirts?
Girls, DON'T DO ANYTHING TO CHANGE YOURSELVES after watching this video! You're beautiful as you are & YOU RUN THE WORLD FOR A REASON 😍 Guys always go for physical traits, sure, but learning how to make men really fall in love with you will probably prove to be invaluable... trust me... some girls just need to learn how to attract men with their feelings and not just by looks. No offense, but that's what made all the difference for me personally 😍 if you need a good guide on how to actually captivate a man with more than just your looks to make him fall deeply in love with you, i definitely recommend checking out 🙏 Personally, I feel like I was getting nowhere with all the different YouTube channels though until I discovered that site lol. gl babes 💞 🙏
Monkeytail Studios
Have I ever been friendzoned? I wrote the book! ;)
Jesika N
I thought something way worse was gonna be on the screen when he said don't talk dirty 🍆😂
Maddie Paige
I'm not single but I like watching these cause I love pleasing my man :)
Tara B
You crack me up! I could watch your videos all day - good laughter fix. Especially loved the twirling of your rope at the end. I bet you have Jessica laughing all the time (except when it’s inappropriate to laugh).
Dria E
I've been in the 'I don't even want to be friends with you' zone
NEKO Chan Namulaz
Thanks for the info you really helped me with my love life
*verne* Nicole*
what if you do nothing and men fall in love with you what does that mean?
Lara Mycroft Gaming
Omg, thank you for the video! I love how you always give great, sensible, advice and are hilarious about it at the same time.
esme weeks
tbh I've friendzoned myself in every relationship😂😂
Bradley Lenart
How do you get it back after it's lost? (and good job my friend)
An important point to remember: too much playing like this means it is just that, playing and no real attraction.
I just found out that a guy I have a crush on is into me, I got told by one of his friends - but i really don't know if I should break the ice, or wait? hmm..
Donna Byrne
Men are natural hunters, they don't like to get it easy, there is no excitement in that for them
Lyss Bolda
friend zoned, FWB zoned, ghosted.. I'm ready for this stuff to work..
Ivy Tania
Me: Hello my old friend, it's good to see you again! Friendzone: Oh hi! :')
red rose
Ask some questions what if I want to talk then his not want. When his want then I didn't talk. Both waiting messages.
Jaymie delnicky
I just got friend zone today I been text my crush and we both like earth other we been text for two mouth then he said he been text xgf and he still has feeling for her and he ask if we can be friends
Be a
wow loved this video! Unfortunetly I only know these tips now after it was too late for me.. I did a lot of these mistakes you described, now my love is gone... ok but now I know better
Lexie Ware
ive been dating my current boyfriend for maybe 3 months, and he told me he loved me within the first month. I really like him but I just feel like he's going really fast emotionally and I just don't know what to do. My feels are going much slower and I feel like he's upset I'm not there yet
Every time you dropped that thing....mmmmm
Lucía Coello
I told him I was into him after a few drinks by text 😦😪 need to rebuild mystery stage
Molly Morton
man.. I failed :/ but we're still together, it's just boring now
Gia *diva* Kenzo
Thanks Adam, you just described me LOL 😂
Courtz K10
yes I've been friendzoned and I've friendzoned someone
Dee Monk
i seriously should of watched adam's videos during puberty. i would of known so much! He's totally 100% accurate!
Judgment Proof
I've actually reached the age and stage in my life where I just take whatever comes. If it happens fine, if it's friend zone fine, I'm content either way. I'm not really looking and it's been said that's usually what it takes to land Mr. right from the stories I've heard. You really should mingle although, this is how you usually find the right one
krysty kava
Is True Love created or a pure luck?
Terrance Burnett
yes i have been in the friend zone. we were sexually attracted to each other but both of us were shy and eventually i got bored and he started acting non responsive so i made up a lie that i hooked back up with an ex told him to delete my number
Fundacion Acharya
Great. Spanish subtitles please.
Laura CA
Omg first comment,i love this guy.
Cornelia Hanimann
actually, ok after watching the video... one point I'm curious about and disagree with... I don't fear to admit how I feel, the guys I have around me, I don't straight up tell them that I like them, I enjoy the moment, and since most women like to define the situation when it's happening, they get curious about how I feel... and instead of what they expect me to say, i tell them that I like them and that I'm enjoying it, just how I feel... not giving away where it's going or if I want something serious, but letting them know that I am falling in love, but taking away the power that emotion has over me, they seem to be curious about it and kinda...trying to push a button that doesn't work. I can tell them how I feel, that I miss them and that I remember great moments and all that and they'll be glad to feel that warmth, but they figure that they have no power over me so... it works really well if you're honest about how you feel when they learn that these emotions won't make me crazy...but instantly takes away the power they like to have... what do you think of my tactic?
Funny way to explain. That wig being the girl. Hahhah we learn and laugh. :)
Savage abby
second comment, also ur so amazing
Shelley Viohl
I’m always put in the friend zone. Lol
Trace Er
I'm friend zoned every. single. time.
DanaLovesYeshua Liberal Antiabort
I'm in the friendzone right now cuz my crush is married. :)
marni matikka
Omg, you are so funny. Lol.
Riya Dey
I'm friendzoned.. 😑😑😑😑😑😑
Ashleen Kaur
So I've been a virtual friends with this guy for more then 4 yrs now. And last year (2018) we started meeting a lot and hangout a lot and we ended up sleeping together but i feel like he stopped liking me that way altho before he wont stop chasing me. Is there a possibility of a relationship after sex? Or should i leave or should we still be friends???🤷🤷🤷
Stupid Raphael
Never in my life I had a friend, just buddies.
Mary Privett
I. feel you should desire him always
little mama
I friend zone....😁...don't get called queen of hearts for nothing
Hannah Louise
yes, it hurts! and gosh all the scenarios are right.
Rantsand Raves2K
Adam, you’re desirable. 🤤
Frankie Flowers
Me and my boss have extreme sexual tension to the point we are both about to bust
Yup, scenario 2 happened to me.
Brandi Jones
yes, i have been friendzoned not a good feeling but i realized that we never had anything in common so, i was glad to keep him as a friend.
No sleep with a it for marriage.
Amen Akalonu
Thanks a lot for your advice
Divine Angelic
No Dirty talk at alllll ! Be a lady always be a gentlemen always could you picture your parents talking dirty ? I hope they don't No need when two people are truly in desire mode
Pokemon Fan151
I like someone but they like my friend should I steal them I’m feelin messy af tbh 😎😈
Charleen Hopkins
yea i was but later knew he was,nt good 4 me , so no loss
Maryam Eshraghy
Hi Thank you so much I am new to your channel cause I am new for reall love, I almost watched all your awesome videoes and I love them Thanks again
Holly Slade
Love this channel so much!
the stuff works
I've been in mutual friend zones. When there is no connection or chemistry etc, we both start to treat each other like siblings lol
So if you engaged in fingering on the 6th date is that enough tension build up. Or is that too late ? Not sure if therir will be a 7th date. But if there is should I take it further with him ?
Erica Evans
Currently On The Edge Of Getting Out Of The Friendzone But Still Completely There 🙃
Dianne Brown
How can you have romantic relationship when you’ve never met the guy I’ve never met the guy met online November 19, 2017 he’s coming home soon will be meeting each other very soon what should I do how should I do it tell me I’m desperate I’m curious help plus I think he’s cheating on me already
Clayclay Tan
it says action speaks louder than words, but then i realize he's action is nothing because he never say anything..😣😏 #friendzone,.
Júlíanna Guðný Þórðardóttir
In the friendzone and the guy knows that i like him🙁
Sara J.
Dude you’re a genius. Thank you for your advice ❤️
andres urgelles
Am a man and ladies yall need to follow this man's advice .
KVL Angel
these guys want everything FAST...
Desiree Lesha
I was actually friend zoned once to my current boyfriend at the time he liked one of my friends and asked me if he asked her out that she would say yes, but he ended up a couple months later asking me out guess I did something right😂
Linda G Michael
Yes happened at least I think it has... we chatted for months . Even to what we both needed and wanted..we finally met.. got physical but still not sure where this is going .. I just don't want to be hurt
Renata nik
i always get friendzoned and friendzone guys and never end up with the guy i really want. i am very attractive and intelligent. Your advice is great but i am beginning to give up on love. I fear myself when ever i get attracted to someone. it makes me run away because i feel like at one point i will realise that he never intended love. 😑😑😑😑😑
Rachel K
sexual tension.. check. continues, check.
justine mathers
I had a one night stand 15 years ago...2 kids and a dog later,we still fancy either other like f**k!
joy ruth
am in this situation now
Wendy Lebeau
Yes. I have been in the friend zone. Except. Every. Guy wants me. Now
Leelee G
I am still in love with the guy I was seeing previously. We had a bad disagreement over the phone back in November. we are no longer on speaking terms. I very much want to reconcile our relationship. should I reach out to him or wait for him to contact me? I love him very much...
Cornelia Hanimann
soooo I met a guy that started to do the " I don't want a relationship I don't like the drama" talk minutes after we were making out and he walked me home... I thought that's a great thing because I live somewhere else and it's obvious that things between us wouldn't work out so... we enoyed our time, I went back home from my holiday and he kinda loves me now and wants to stay in contact because he really likes me... where did I go wrong? I thought the short term romance of 2 days would be great and I expected to go home with a heartbreak so I can move on and take a good memory with me, but we're still talking...I didn't even sleep with him because time was so short, I really wanted to stay single, now it's already going into that stupid direction again... I find it ironic that I watch these videos because I find the information given interesting, but initially I want the opposite of what your tipical audience likes to see, so... how does this happen? that I intend to stay single, yet each time I try that, I'm suddenly with some dude that's unexpectedly liking me and I figure I like that dude too... I've been in a relationship for most of my life, I want to be single, I have to be single for some time... can you teach me to not fall in love or something...and also how to deal with this without making the man feel like he's not good enough or something?
Always be friend zoned
Deiona McKnight
I am in the eternal friend zone, so much so I think I start off by putting myself into the friend zone
Thank you, Adam.
viv 123
The advice is always don't rush phyiscal get to know eachother first. I do this all the time but a lot of guys expect it by 2nd date so as soon as you say something they are gone then there are the ones I like that move at snails pace and don't make a move and then become friends and no longer hang out. Why is this never addressed in these videos? Always the same old don't rush into sex
charis xx
I wonder how many times he did that scene wrong and had to pick the belt up
Cynthia McCrea
Who wants to go around kissing every freaking joe schmo? That's not healthy. And guys say in their dating profile that they want a woman who enjoys kissing and cuddling ( not to get graphic). Its too much. I swear I have no clue what to say to guys now...especially now that im older and the guys are 35+ talking like horny teens.