How to Make a Man Deeply Desire You | Adam LoDolce


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Blow past the 'friend zone' and get him to deeply desire you with these secret tools. Say goodbye to being looked over and hello to being sexy and desired. Watch more videos like this: />Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: /> ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: />INSTAGRAM: />TWITTER: /> Do you know the secret to making a man deeply desire you? Inside this short video I break down exactly how to avoid landing yourself in the dreaded 'friend zone.' I also reveal what you need to do in order to make him chase you like a cat chases a mouse. Check it out now and join the conversation in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam P.S. – Making a man desire you has A LOT to do with how you make him feel. And that's the entire focus of my Emotional Attraction Formula which you can grab right here. Summary – Sexual Tension This is a phenomenon that occurs when two people interact with one another and both feel sexual desire towards one another, but the consummation is postponed. Sexual tension is what keeps the possibility of a relationship alive. Think of sexual tension as a rope. You on one end and him on the other. Now, there are three scenarios. Situation #1: You Sleep With Him on a First Date If you jump the gun too soon, what happens? You wake up the next morning and you realize you don't even know the other person. The rope snaps. Sexual tension is gone… and it's over. Situation #2: You Have Zero Sexual Tension Imagine that the rope just sags and sags and sags. You get to know each other. You talk, talk, talk, then before you know you realize that you're just friends and then nothing's there at all. Sexual tension gone, now you're just friends. You could literally have everything in the world in common, but if there's no sexual tension there, then he's not going to desire you and chances are you're not going to desire him. You are just friends. Situation #3: You're Actually Getting to Know Each Other Slowly, But Surely The rope is tight… a little pull here… a little slack there… and then another little tug on the line… Boom goes the dynamite! Of course, we all want this third situation. The question is how do you do it? How do you keep sexual tension in a relationship before you have sex? For starters, allow for slow sexual progression. Without forward progression, he's going to give up. With too much forward progression, such as having sex on the first date, you're risking the fadeout. Be sensual without being too sexual. Maybe on the first date, you guys have a kiss. Maybe on the second date, it goes a little bit further. Maybe a third date, it goes even further. Progression is great, but you don't want to jump the gun too quickly. Forward progression, good. Jumping the gun, bad. Secondly, talk dirty but do it very subtly. Watch the video for some examples of what to do and what not to do. Bottom line: dirty talk allows him to use his imagination a little bit. If he's using his imagination, you're winning. Finally, make him miss you. If he's constantly drawing you back in, then you know what, you're building more tension in the relationship. If he's constantly pushing you back and pushing you away, then you are at risk of losing him. Make him wonder if he's going to have you and if he's wondering, then he's going to really desire you. Some women out there, I understand they want to wear their heart on their sleeve and just when they meet a guy that they really like. They want to just go for it, let them know everything and just dive right in. At the end of the day, it can really hurt you with your early on relationships because that's not how attraction works. Sexual tension really works when the guy is still wondering where it's going. When there's still a little bit of mystery in the relationship. If he's not really sure where it's going… …that's going to really push him forward to want to get to know you further and turn it into a relationship.



Sam Nolan
I agree with this. How can you be romantically involved with someone your not attracted too? Theirs gotta be some physical desire.
Liza Wallace
When Adam said "Yes You, You Sexy Single Lady" I lost it 🙈🤣😂
Bianca
never been friendzoned but always "friends-with-benefit'-zoned... I don't understand why. I am a normal,attractive woman, great job and life... but guys only want to hook up with me, although I don't dress sexy or look like I just want to hook up :/
T Elmo
you sure like dropping that rope thing on the floor lol
Liza Wallace
Video starts at 2:30. You're welcome
A True Love Official
"Be sensual without being too sexual." I love this statement as much as I love all these three tips. Thank you for this video.
Jen C.
The man is supposed to court you and impress you. let the man do the work and if he isn't into you then have him step aside so the real one can step in
KVL Angel
these guys want everything FAST...
Shasha8674
No sleep with a guy....save it for marriage.
DanaLovesYeshua Liberal Antiabort
I'm in the friendzone right now cuz my crush is married. :)
RememberRox
I was too needy :( The guy fell head over heels for me and tried to impress me all the time. I wasn't interested at first, I friendzoned him. Then I started to fall for him and became needy. All of a sudden he doesn't want to date anymore saying he doesn't have feelings for me. And now I'm friendzoned and heartbroken.
Precious Cousins
Yes I have been friend zoned. We broke up, but I still love him. I had to let him go.
msbond700
My friend who had a history with friend zone me and try to make me his booty call. So I don't call or text him anymore and he leaves me alone :-) :-) win win next
G G
yeah adam, i have the opposite problem too, getting sex-zoned, or fwb-zoned, even tho i dress nicely and dont act like a slut lol. can u please make a video on how to avoid this with men? its happened my whole life and im so tired of men just wanting sex and no relationship. cheersies :)
Golden Prize
I kinda disagree. I did hook up with a guy on the first date and he literally kept chasing me... and wanting to date me and asking if i would consider him as a bf. So i agree but kinda disagree
andres urgelles
Am a man and ladies yall need to follow this man's advice .
Keryn Dawer
Thank you Adam. Always appreciate your Truthful videos although sometimes the Truth hurts. I think I've been friendzoned. I attempted to "cheer up" my amor (with whom there was tons of sexual tension) when he was having a bad day by telling him how Amazing I think he is. Well, that seems to have been the kiss of death. Sad when being honest is a bad thing, but I do see your point regarding how that works. Anyway, it's all good as I don't have time or energy (or admiration and passion for) anyone I can that easily dissuade. Your points are well taken though. Blessings and Gratitude xo
Butterflikissies
What about if your in a relationship with that person and you want to keep him desiring you? I had a discussion with my bf about having the need to be wanted, cause I feel like it's always me showing I want him.. and he told me "girls dont know how to cultivate desire that they want to be wanted but dont know how to go about doing it and think it just comes naturally" So that leaves me wondering what I am doing wrong... what should I be doing? I do basically everything, making him feel wanted, needed, loved, compliment him, make him feel like my protector.. I know he enjoys being with me and I know I make him feel good (he's told me so) Only thing I can say that I might be doing wrong is spending most of my time with him. Should I keep away from him and give him space so he misses me and wants me? I just hate the fact that I have to play these types of games to feel wanted by the person I love especially when I know the person loves me.
viv 123
The advice is always don't rush phyiscal get to know eachother first. I do this all the time but a lot of guys expect it by 2nd date so as soon as you say something they are gone then there are the ones I like that move at snails pace and don't make a move and then become friends and no longer hang out. Why is this never addressed in these videos? Always the same old don't rush into sex
npnpnp
An important point to remember: too much playing like this means it is just that, playing and no real attraction.
soul
Video: "You sexy single lady" Me: "oh well" (flips hair)
*verne* Nicole*
what if you do nothing and men fall in love with you what does that mean?
krysty kava
Is True Love created or a pure luck?
Terrance Burnett
yes i have been in the friend zone. we were sexually attracted to each other but both of us were shy and eventually i got bored and he started acting non responsive so i made up a lie that i hooked back up with an ex told him to delete my number
Dria E
I've been in the 'I don't even want to be friends with you' zone
Jaymie delnicky
I just got friend zone today I been text my crush and we both like earth other we been text for two mouth then he said he been text xgf and he still has feeling for her and he ask if we can be friends
Shweta Kumari
i met a guy 6 months ago, felt an attraction since the moment i saw him...he's not the hottest or the cutest of them all but for me he's the only one i think of every night before i sleep .....but he friendzoned me back then...now i've slowly escaped the friendzone but he still fears to commit...what should i do?
AlaNothing
I just found out that a guy I have a crush on is into me, I got told by one of his friends - but i really don't know if I should break the ice, or wait? hmm..
tripoldina
Friend-zone: the only place I'm in 24/7 :(
Renata nik
i always get friendzoned and friendzone guys and never end up with the guy i really want. i am very attractive and intelligent. Your advice is great but i am beginning to give up on love. I fear myself when ever i get attracted to someone. it makes me run away because i feel like at one point i will realise that he never intended love. 😑😑😑😑😑
Leelee G
I am still in love with the guy I was seeing previously. We had a bad disagreement over the phone back in November. we are no longer on speaking terms. I very much want to reconcile our relationship. should I reach out to him or wait for him to contact me? I love him very much...
Suz
This video is funny and so clear about the 3 scenarios. I've dated guys in all 3 categories. C is ideal. Thank you Sexy Confidence
Lita77Swe
Have I ever been friendzoned? I wrote the book! ;)
Solenne Nicli
Could you make a video with example of those subtle flirts?
marni matikka
Omg, you are so funny. Lol.
Kajal Pandey
I wish I could date you
xaashiix m
thanks that'll help.
joy ruth
am in this situation now
Inside Evil
What if the woman has cancer and disabled. How to attract a man then?
SORAYA SILVA GONZALEZ
Funny way to explain. That wig being the girl. Hahhah we learn and laugh. :)
Tara B
You crack me up! I could watch your videos all day - good laughter fix. Especially loved the twirling of your rope at the end. I bet you have Jessica laughing all the time (except when it’s inappropriate to laugh).
Donna Byrne
Men are natural hunters, they don't like to get it easy, there is no excitement in that for them
Courtz K10
yes I've been friendzoned and I've friendzoned someone
darkpearl88
men are always trying to get women to sell low. they don't want to pay full price even for the woman they can't stop thinking about. dating has become a sport, almost like trading on the stock market.
Fundacion Acharya
Great. Spanish subtitles please.
Shelley Viohl
I’m always put in the friend zone. Lol
GRANT Lehana
Yes I have been friendzoned and I guess it's because I'm not attractive enough
jernelle louis
this guy who I'm seeing didn't kiss me on the first date he acted so shy and I don't know why is that a bad thing?
luulips
This sounds just like me and my young friend. Mmm, mmm. He sent me a picture of him in the snow and I text him that he was a brown snow man. He said "bite me". I waited about 1 minute then returned this text, "be glad to". He said "oh lord lol". We have been doing these hints back and forth lately. Been knowing him for about 3 years now and this is the closest we have gotten. Its been slow because I wasn't sure I wanted to become involved with someone as young as he is to me but I honestly liked him from the beginning and so did he like me. Its the age difference that slowed things down so much. He hasn't given up and is constantly pulling me in needless to say.
Trace Er
I'm friend zoned every. single. time.
Cornelia Hanimann
soooo I met a guy that started to do the " I don't want a relationship I don't like the drama" talk minutes after we were making out and he walked me home... I thought that's a great thing because I live somewhere else and it's obvious that things between us wouldn't work out so... we enoyed our time, I went back home from my holiday and he kinda loves me now and wants to stay in contact because he really likes me... where did I go wrong? I thought the short term romance of 2 days would be great and I expected to go home with a heartbreak so I can move on and take a good memory with me, but we're still talking...I didn't even sleep with him because time was so short, I really wanted to stay single, now it's already going into that stupid direction again... I find it ironic that I watch these videos because I find the information given interesting, but initially I want the opposite of what your tipical audience likes to see, so... how does this happen? that I intend to stay single, yet each time I try that, I'm suddenly with some dude that's unexpectedly liking me and I figure I like that dude too... I've been in a relationship for most of my life, I want to be single, I have to be single for some time... can you teach me to not fall in love or something...and also how to deal with this without making the man feel like he's not good enough or something?
lizzeettee
There's this guy I talked to for over 2 months we hung out once and I thought he was a really nice guy I'm not sure at that point if I even liked him or found him attractive I'm guessing he noticed that so he disappeared now I'm just like ? 😪 now I'm here thinking about him because he deleted me off everything I had him on he stopped talking to me because he admitted to being clingy and I said I hate that. I always like what I can't have so idk if I should just brush it off 😪
Verbose Siu
man dat shit gø bøth ways
Cornelia Hanimann
actually, ok after watching the video... one point I'm curious about and disagree with... I don't fear to admit how I feel, the guys I have around me, I don't straight up tell them that I like them, I enjoy the moment, and since most women like to define the situation when it's happening, they get curious about how I feel... and instead of what they expect me to say, i tell them that I like them and that I'm enjoying it, just how I feel... not giving away where it's going or if I want something serious, but letting them know that I am falling in love, but taking away the power that emotion has over me, they seem to be curious about it and kinda...trying to push a button that doesn't work. I can tell them how I feel, that I miss them and that I remember great moments and all that and they'll be glad to feel that warmth, but they figure that they have no power over me so... it works really well if you're honest about how you feel when they learn that these emotions won't make me crazy...but instantly takes away the power they like to have... what do you think of my tactic?
J OneLife
friend with benegits zoned 7 times by one man in a year. he just did it again but this time he swears there won't be any more sex. known him 2 years from my building. he has not had a relationship for 25 years or loved a woman 25 yrs. we are in a fight now we rarely fight. I love him but he says he has no feelings I don't believe him. we were involved for 7 months...
Hurya Bella
If u just show sexual than ull just be sexual to him..dont be like that show personality..man not see u..but see their feeling exictment .thats what i learn
Dorsa Arvandi
I'm in the friend zone right now because I don't want be anything more than friends at this point unttil who knows what will happen between us in the future although me and him had sex a few times but that was in the past. for now I just want be friends and have a decent non complicated friendship till time can tell what happens between us
Lexie Ware
ive been dating my current boyfriend for maybe 3 months, and he told me he loved me within the first month. I really like him but I just feel like he's going really fast emotionally and I just don't know what to do. My feels are going much slower and I feel like he's upset I'm not there yet
Bochra ba
i don't know if i'm friendzoned with him or not but we both know that there is sexual attraction and emotions between us even w had some intimacy moments once after 2 years of knowing him..we still friends we talk every single day but nothing is clear about beeing in relationship or sthg... what should i do?? :/
nada0319
So if you engaged in fingering on the 6th date is that enough tension build up. Or is that too late ? Not sure if therir will be a 7th date. But if there is should I take it further with him ?
Judgment Proof
I've actually reached the age and stage in my life where I just take whatever comes. If it happens fine, if it's friend zone fine, I'm content either way. I'm not really looking and it's been said that's usually what it takes to land Mr. right from the stories I've heard. You really should mingle although, this is how you usually find the right one
Alina-Raluca Pipirigianu
Awesome videos!I love them !
spazgurl88
Yes, major FRIEND ZONED!! I'm here and you know that I know that I'm attractively hot by society's definition! Why does he think that it's the worst possible thing if something were to blossom?!?! #nerdboysamiright
Bradley Lenart
How do you get it back after it's lost? (and good job my friend)
pisceanrat
Friend zone vs sexual tension
Be a
wow loved this video! Unfortunetly I only know these tips now after it was too late for me.. I did a lot of these mistakes you described, now my love is gone... ok but now I know better
Ivy Tania
Me: Hello my old friend, it's good to see you again! Friendzone: Oh hi! :')
Desiree Lesha
I was actually friend zoned once to my current boyfriend at the time he liked one of my friends and asked me if he asked her out that she would say yes, but he ended up a couple months later asking me out guess I did something right😂
Esmerelda Indigo
I desperately try to friend zone when I feel a guy digs me way more than I bargained for and I am not returning it OR he totally got the wrong idea.
Riya Dey
I'm friendzoned.. 😑😑😑😑😑😑
Ney ney chan ANIME Namulaz
Thanks for the info you really helped me with my love life
Dee Monk
i seriously should of watched adam's videos during puberty. i would of known so much! He's totally 100% accurate!
guncha parveen
Hahaha...Damn true.. all I have gone through....let's last one works for me:)
Joy Bogue
I have a question… what if you have no physical contact with the guy you think likes you, what if it's someone you can't see physically?
Lyss Bolda
friend zoned, FWB zoned, ghosted.. I'm ready for this stuff to work..
TheCherryHotTomali
+Sexy Confidence I was friendzoned and it was the best thing to ever happen to me! I finally let the man I love most out of the BFF brotherzone. Poor man had been trying to get out for nearly a decade and I finally clued in. Even though we're in a long distance relationship because it took me so long to clue in and life circumstances have each of us pinned down into our respective locations right now, we couldn't be happier together. I would also add that the distance is only serving to make us exceptional communicators. You should really do a mini series on LDRs and how to make them work as well as attitudes to watch out for in them. I know of a lot of people in them who have also made them work and others who are afraid of trying because LDRs have such a negative stigma attached to them. I get it, as my last relationship was also long distance and turned out very, very badly as he wasn't mature enough to handle it. It's a concept I haven't really seen anywhere to speak of and you could have the jump on this niche relationship market, which would be awesome, Adam, as you give amazing advice. :)
Lucia Coello
I told him I was into him after a few drinks by text 😦😪 need to rebuild mystery stage
Maria Pollack
lol quick question are you still in the friend zone when he calls when he texts and calls morning noon and night and he drive an hour an a half just to see you? Once a week for sure but sometimes up to three times a week?
esme weeks
tbh I've friendzoned myself in every relationship😂😂
Verbose Siu
i can make ur day boo
Kadie Galewaler
I love the rope definitely
Mzmamacita87
I have never been friend zoned but it seems that it's always the married guy who makes an initiation, why is that? Uhhh FML.😒
Júlíanna Guðný Þórðardóttir
In the friendzone and the guy knows that i like him🙁
Kecia Scarbrough
I friend zone men because they don't take me seriously.
Reagan D
Video starts at 2:28
Raphael Garcia
Never in my life I had a friend, just buddies.
Amen Akalonu
Thanks a lot for your advice
andres urgelles
Am a man and ladies yall need to follow this man's advice .
Hannah Louise Enanoria
yes, it hurts! and gosh all the scenarios are right.
Mrs. Mer
what did that poor rope ever do to you? hahaha
Camille Rogers
Nice
Sara Lopez
Omg, thank you for the video! I love how you always give great, sensible, advice and are hilarious about it at the same time.
Forever Bubblegum
Thank you!!
Phoenix M
I wonder if yandere Chan is Watching
brianna brady
I've been friend zoned for being too skinny lol
Gavin ImmaSexyBeast
man.. I failed :/ but we're still together, it's just boring now
Priyanka singh
u too sexy
Mary Louise Carter-Gray
Never been in the friend zone, but I'm where you explained in points 1and 2 without dates, but we are taking it slow and the attraction/ sexual tension is so strong. Thanks for the video to know I'm doing the right thing after 4 months of talking and getting to know each other again. We knew from childhood -teenage years, but never got together.
Charleen Hopkins
yea i was but later knew he was,nt good 4 me , so no loss
Gia *diva* Kenzo
Thanks Adam, you just described me LOL 😂